Whoever started this new 'grief scolding' push with Erika Kirk really should look in the mirror because what they have created with whispers and ugly gossip is a poison not only on the Left, but on the supposed Right. There is no one way for a human being to grieve, especially after they lose a spouse, which many believe is the hardest loss of all. Apparently, since Erika isn't sitting in her home sobbing day in and day out, looking unkempt and slowly moving toward poverty, she's not 'widowing' correctly.
Whatever the Hell that means.
All we can assume is these people are fortunate to have never experienced grief like this, because truly, if you have, you wouldn't make comments like this one:
The epitome of “grief.” pic.twitter.com/m8g6XoFuUz
— ThePatrioticBlonde🇺🇸 (@ImBreckWorsham) December 8, 2025
OH NO, Erika is smiling in a picture taken at a fundraiser.
The nerve of her not sobbing in that picture, clearly, she's not grieving Charlie enough.
You know the face you make when someone says something so stupid or ugly you're not sure if the account spewing it is a parody? Yeah, we just made that same face.
A widow herself, Mary Katharine Ham posted this about grief:
Widows smile. Widows function. Widows raise their children and work jobs. Widows read the Bible and pray and have dark moments behind closed doors, often shielding other people from them. Hope this helps. pic.twitter.com/PZ6CqYbU5f
— Mary Katharine Ham (@mkhammer) December 8, 2025
Hope this helps.
Love that.
Others were also very 'helpful':
What a hateful thing to say. I hope you never have to experience what she has. If you do, I hope you remember this tweet.
— Texas Darlin' 🎀 (@TexitDarling) December 9, 2025
There is no RIGHT way to navigate grief. May you be judged one day as you’ve judged her.
God awful.
You are the epitome of a horrible person.
— Stacey (@ScotsFyre) December 9, 2025
You will never suffer a loss like this as a public figure charged with carrying on your husband’s legacy & shepherding the organization that was his life’s legacy. Maybe shut up.
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That’s me on the left, 6 weeks after my youngest son died. I showed up to a close friend’s 50th birthday celebration before going to a funeral for my daughter-in-law’s great grandmother. Am I the epitome of grief, too? You must live a very sad life to judge anyone’s grief. How… pic.twitter.com/ZzmSGxtCOt
— Greg’s Mom Forever (@CaliGal4Ever) December 9, 2025
How long before she allowed to smile and experience joy again, without you insufferable twats trying to max out your twitter earnings off it? What a garbage human you are.
— Some Welder 🇺🇸 (@SomeWelder) December 9, 2025
Right? Like, what is the exact timetable here that is acceptable for her to start smiling again?
What exactly does proper mourning look like? I didn’t get the handbook when my husband passed. I have pictures of myself laughing at his wake the night before his funeral. There are no cameras in my room at night when i feel the loss and I’m all alone.
— Bleu Cheque (@VERBAL_CHANCLA) December 9, 2025
Repent
— Megan Basham (@megbasham) December 9, 2025
Seems like good advice.
You are blessed to not yet have experienced deep loss and its grief, or you would know how wrong you are.
— Constance Crane (@TrackingFires) December 8, 2025
Count your blessings today!
Life gives us each things to grieve eventually, and that’s how many of us already know how wrong and blessed you are.
You're the kind of person who brags about being conservative but secretly votes for the Marxist lesbian.
— And Don't Call Me Shirley. (@Meme_Behavior) December 9, 2025
Oooh, low blow.
What the hell is wrong with you?
— He's dead, Jim🖖🏼 (@JVinDC) December 9, 2025
Fair question.
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