Big Rocks or True Love? X's Quest for the Perfect Engagement Ring

justmindy | 6:30 PM on August 06, 2025

The latest Twitter buzz is all about engagement rings and whether size really matters. I’m kinda the perfect person to chime in here since my son’s getting ready to pop the question to his longtime girlfriend. First thing he did? Asked her what she’s into. They hit up a bunch of jewelry stores to nail down her vibe. Once they settled on a stone shape, the big debate was natural vs. lab-grown diamonds. Talking to jewelers, we learned most couples are going lab-grown these days. They’re way cheaper, so you can go bigger, and people are shying away from natural diamonds as they learn more about the messy mining process.

serious question: is there any such thing as an ethical diamond apart from lab grown ones?
— koala (@flengiddich) July 29, 2025

Did you know that lab-made and lab-grown diamonds are now purer, more beautiful, and about three times cheaper than mined diamonds? https://t.co/RZ5yZlpQb8 pic.twitter.com/ghro6UyqfQ
— Ben Southwood (@bswud) September 4, 2024

My future daughter-in-law picked out a radiant-cut diamond set on a yellow gold band—gorgeous choice! She’s got her heart set on a 3-4 carat stone, and they decided to go with a lab-grown diamond. That’s when my son brought me into the mix. Now that he knows exactly what his bride-to-be loves, he asked me to help hunt down the perfect ring.

Re engagement rings: if you demand an expensive ring or mock another woman for hers, you’re the red flag. Neither the rings nor the wedding day make the marriage.

We got engaged when my husband was in grad school. We had a small budget. It was still so beautiful and special.
— Kimberly Ross (@SouthernKeeks) August 6, 2025

An engagement ring is super personal—it’s all about what she loves, not what anyone else thinks. Everyone’s got their own style, and this is a forever piece of jewelry. My son’s only focus? Making sure the ring is absolutely perfect for his girlfriend, not chasing clout with the crowd.

I mean, Jennifer Lopez has had a total of six massive and expensive engagement rings.

How is all that going for her…
— Kimberly Ross (@SouthernKeeks) August 6, 2025

A beautiful ring certainly does not ensure a problem free marriage.

It’s the sincerity behind the ring that makes it beautiful.
— Ampersand (@ampersandohms) August 6, 2025

My son and I have been geeking out for hours, diving deep into how to score the most stunning stone without breaking the bank. We decided to buy the diamond separately to nail the exact cut and clarity he wanted, then have it set by a local jeweler he trusts. It’s been a ton of work, but honestly, such a blast. That ring’s gonna be absolutely perfect, no doubt.

Ladies, does ring size actually matter?
— JohnBurk (@johnburk39) August 6, 2025

No. It's a basic outward symbol of your commitment. Rock size (or lack of a rock) does not equal the fiancé/fiancée's level of commitment nor does the cost.
— Courtney (@onlyonecourtney) August 6, 2025

No. The person you are marrying and his character is far more important. Also walking around in public with a big stone is not a good idea in today’s world.
— sheila (@SheilaCorris) August 6, 2025

As long as the couple loves the ring, nothing else matters. Here’s to all the lucky ladies and gents taking the big leap—wishing you all the best!