Hot Take: We Know About the Noncitizens Voting in NJ *Because* Our Elections...
Jennifer Welch: Homeschooling Is 'Inherently Patriarchal' and a 'Huge Push of the Fascist...
Mehdi Hasan Explains to Javier Bardem How Spain's World Cup Win Was a...
Why the ‘Conservatives Are Incurious’ Smear Is Pure Projection
ActBlue Fraud Hits El-Sayed Campaign: 88yo No-Computer Granny ‘Donated’ $150K (and 47 Time...
Rep Brandon Gill Introduces Bill to End Birthright Citizenship for Children of Illegal...
Fifth Circuit: Illegal Aliens Have No Constitutional Right to Roam Free During Removal...
'It Never Happens' — Until a Mexican Illegal Sexually Abused and Murdered a...
Fifteen-Year Pro-Hamas ‘Forever Student’ at Columbia to Be Deported to Jordan
Ratio Alert! Geraldo Rivera's Attempt to Make the NJ Voting 'Glitch' About Trump...
Unable to Arrest Netanyahu, Mamdani Leaves It to New Yorkers Whether They Want...
All This Dem Lying About Noncitizens Voting Being a Nonexistent Problem Is Aging...
Ethiopian Migrant Executes Three, Tells Court He Was Treated Unfairly Because He’s Black
Trimming the Fat: ABC Slashes The View's Hosts’ Salaries and Wardrobe Budget, More...
Mic Drop Moment: Bessent Slams NYC Mayor Zohran Mamdani for Peddling the Oldest...
Premium

Youth Travel Sports Have Become a Family-Destroying Trap – Thank God Someone Finally Said It

AP Photo/Teresa Crawford

I rejoiced seeing this monologue today. It's about time this was called out. Youth sports—and particularly travel ball—are getting more and more out of control. They've become the worst thing that could have happened to sports and families.

My son graduated from high school in 2018. He played high school baseball and enjoyed it very much. Eight years later, his best friends are still the boys he played with on that school team. My son is a firefighter, and his teammates are now a doctor, a chiropractor, a police officer, and a pilot. Not only did they play ball together, but they pushed each other to do well in life. Those were some of the best years of our lives. His coach was tough, but he was respectful of family life and encouraged church attendance on Sundays.

Now, families are traveling all over on the weekends, spending way too much money, dragging along kids who aren't even involved in the sport, and very often the parents get together and drink way too much at night. Family life should never revolve around sports, but for too many families, it now does.The fact of the matter is that your kid will likely not play in college, much less professionally. The kids who do go pro usually have tons of natural talent and don't need hours and hours of sports every week and weekend to hone their skills.

For parents claiming they do it for scholarships: If they put aside the money they were spending on travel ball, they'd have plenty to send their kids to college without relying on hard-to-obtain sports scholarships.

Several of my son's friends who did play travel ball went on to play at D1 schools. One was redshirted, then released the next year; he transferred to a community college, played a couple of years, and eventually decided to move on. Another played ball for a couple of years before shifting focus to pursuing his career. None of them went pro—or even came close. On top of that, at the ripe old age of 25, one of them has already needed multiple Tommy John surgeries.

America needs to return to the rec league model of sports. Before high school, kids should play in community leagues. If parents think their kids are really exceptional, they can hire a private coach for extra lessons. Traveling around the country to play teams from the next city over—and spending lots of precious time and money—needs to stop. It's terrible for families, community sports, and young athletes.

So well said. Financially and Spiritually Predatory is the perfect description of today's sport's leauges.

But, also, it's not that serious? Who cares if a Coach takes away playing time? It stinks, but in the long term, it's just really not that important. 

That would be the best option. Sports should be local. Kids should play with people in their neighborhood and make lifelong friends. That's the really benefit of youth sports. 

Recommended

Trending on Twitchy Videos

Advertisement
Advertisement
Advertisement