You have to be careful with names. Twitter just made it clear that you can be banned for “deadnaming” someone; that is, using a trans person’s birth name rather than the one they picked to match their new gender.

And now there’s “name shaming,” which has happened to a lot of people (like a certain high school classmate whose parents had named him Kermit in the late ’60s, for example).

This video has been going around for a couple of days, and in it a mother alleges that Southwest Air employees made fun of her daughter’s name, which is Abcde (pronounced AB-city, duh).

“Accused of being awful to a five-year-old girl because of her unique name.” And that name again is Abcde.

Hey! Be nice!